THE LAST LECTURE

To make a better life

PERSONALITY:

1. Jangan membandingkan hidup Anda dengan orang lain karena Anda tidak pernah tahu apa yang telah mereka lalui
2. Jangan berpikir negatif akan hal-hal yang berada diluar kendali Anda, melainkan salurkan energi Anda menuju kehidupan yang dijalani saat ini, secara positif
3. Jangan bekerja terlalu keras, jangan lewati batasan Anda
4. Jangan memaksa diri Anda untuk selalu perfect, tidak ada satu orang pun yang sempurna
5. Jangan membuang waktu Anda yang berharga untuk gosip
6. Bermimpilah saat anda bangun (bukan saat tertidur)
7. Iri hati membuang-buang waktu, Anda sudah memiliki semua kebutuhan Anda
8. Lupakan masa lalu. Jangan mengungkit kesalahan pasangan Anda di masa lalu. Hal itu akan merusak kebahagiaan Anda saat ini
9. Hidup terlalu singkat untuk membenci siapapun itu. Jangan membenci
10. Berdamailah dengan masa lalu Anda agar hal tersebut tidak menganggu masa ini
11. Tidak ada seorang pun yang bertanggung jawab atas kebahagiaan Anda kecuali Anda 
12. Sadari bahwa hidup adalah sekolah, dan Anda berada di sini sebagai pelajar. Masalah adalah bagian daripada kurikulum yang datang dan pergi seperti kelas aljabar (matematika) tetapi, pelajaran yang Anda dapat bertahan seumur hidup
13. Senyumlah dan tertawalah
14. Anda tidak dapat selalu menang dalam perbedaan pendapat. Belajarlah menerima kekalahan

COMMUNITY:

1. Hubungi keluarga Anda sesering mungkin
2. Setiap hari berikan sesuatu yang baik kepada orang lain
3. Ampuni setiap orang untuk segala hal
4. Habiskan waktu dengan orang-orang di atas umur 70 dan di bawah 6 tahun
5. Coba untuk membuat paling sedikit 3 orang tersenyum setiap hari
6. Apa yang orang lain pikirkan tentang Anda bukanlah urusan Anda
7. Pekerjaan Anda tidak akan menjaga Anda di saat Anda sakit, tetapi keluarga dan teman Anda. Tetaplah berhubungan baik

LIFE:

1. Jadikan Tuhan sebagai yang pertama dalam setiap pikiran, perkataan, dan perbuatan Anda
2. Tuhan menyembuhkan segala sesuatu
3. Lakukan hal yang benar
4. Sebaik/ seburuk apapun sebuah situasi, hal tersebut akan berubah
5. Tidak peduli bagaimana perasaan Anda, bangun, berpakaian, dan keluarlah!
6. Yang terbaik belumlah tiba
7. Buang segala sesuatu yang tidak berguna, tidak indah, atau mendukakan
8. Ketika Anda bangun di pagi hari, berterima kasihlah pada Tuhan untuk itu
9. Jika Anda mengenal Tuhan, Anda akan selalu bersukacita. So, be happy

DO You Want to know what love is..? Thus saith the LORD...

APA KATA TUHAN TENTANG CINTA ??

1. Cinta adalah pencipta keindahan terhebat (I Tim 2:9-10)

2. Cinta adalah suatu wujud keinginan;dalam niat dan tindakan (1 Yoh 3:18)

3. Cinta harus menjadi dasar dari segala sesuatu (1 Kor 13:3)

4. Rumus untuk mencapai hubungan yang sukses:

    Perlakukan semua bencana seperti masalah sepele, 

    tetapi jangan pernah memperlakukan masalah sepele seperti sebuah bencana. (Filipi 4:5)

5. Tidak ada yang dapat mengimbangi besarnya nilai kenangan bersama: kenangan melalui masa sulit bersama (2 Tim 1:2-3)

6. Kita dapat menjaga kehidupan cinta kita bila menjadikannya sebagai prioritas dalam kehidupan kita. (Kid 4:16)

7. Cinta selalu percaya akan adanya mukjizat. (Roma 8:28)

8. Cinta membuat segala sesuatu menjadi ringan. (Mat 11:28)

9. Ketika cinta harus menanggung sesuatu, ia tidak akan dianggap sebagai beban. (Mat 11:30)

10. Cinta memberikan segala - galanya dengan tidak mengharapkan balasan. (Yoh 3:16)

11. Cinta kekanak-kanakan berkata: "Aku mencintaimu karena aku membutuhkanmu." Cinta dewasa berkata: "Aku membutuhkanmu karena aku mecintaimu." (1 Yoh 3:16)

12. Cinta memang benar seperti yang terdengar,terlihat,tertulis, dan dibicarakan banyak orang. Cinta patut diperjuangkan dengan mempertaruhkan semua yg ada untuk mendapatkannya. (1 Yoh 3:1)

13. Cinta adalah suatu pencarian (Gal 5:14)

14. Kebiasaan terlihat indah di dalam cinta. (2 Kor 8:12)

15. Keuntungan cinta pada pandangan pertama adalah memperlambat pandangan yang kedua. (Roma 5:8)

16. Cinta adalah satu-satunya gairah yang memasukkan kebahagiaan orang lain dalam mimpinya. (Yoh 14:1-3)

17. Cinta adalah satu-satunya usaha yang sangat boros:meskipun cinta itu diberikan, dibuang, disebarkan, dikosongkan dari perbendaharaan anda, anda akan memiliki lebih banyak dari semula. (Luk 6:38)

18. Untuk mencintai seseorang, kita hanya dapat megharapkan kebaikan baginya. (1 Kor 10:24)

19. Cinta mengubah semua hati yang keras menjadi lembut. (Roma 8:6)

20. Kebersamaan menguatkan cinta. (Fil 1:7)

21. Ketidakhadiran mempertajam cinta. (2 Tim 1:4)

22. Cinta adalah apa yang telah kita alami bersama dengan seseorang. (KIS 20:31-32)

23. Hargailah kebajikannya. Jangan terlalu melihat kesalahan-kesalahannya.(Kid 5:16)

24. Bagaimana aku dapat mencintaimu? Izinkan aku melakukan banyak hal untuk menunjukkan cintaku. (Hosea 3:1)

25. Pembicaraan intim dengan pasangan dapat meringankan perjalanan yang penuh dengan tantangan. (Kid 4:1)

26. Pertahankan hal-hal yang sudah disetujui bersama dan rundingkan hal-hal yang dapat dikompromikan. (Filipi 2:4)

27. Cinta bukan hanya saling memandang satu sama lain, namun bersama-sama melihat pada satu tujuan. (KIS 2:44-45)

28. Cinta memenuhi dan menyelesaikan banyak hal ketika salah satu dari pasangan tidak berdaya dan tidak berpengharapan. (Pengkhotbah 4:10)

29. Tidak ada satu bagianpun yang ada padamu yang tidak aku ketahui, tidak kuingat, dan tidak kuinginkan.(Kid 5:2)

30. Tiada hubungan yang tidak bermasalah. (P'khotbah 7:29)

31. Cinta berani mengambil resiko untuk melihat impian pasangan anda menjadi kenyataan. (1 Pet 3:6)

32. Kita dapat memberi tanpa mengasihi, tetapi kita tidak dapat mengasihi tanpa memberi. (Ams 20:22)

33. Cinta memerintah tanpa pedang. Cinta mengikat tanpa tali. (2 Kor 3:17)

34. Anda tidak bisa membuat saya berduka bila saya memiliki cinta. (Roma 8:1-2)

35. Tidak ada yang kalah atau menang dalam suatu konflik, tetapi itu akan menjadi terobosan baru menuju pengertian yg lebih baik satu sama lain.(Roma 13:10)

36. "Aku mencintaimu". Itu berarti: "kamu, kamu,kamu dan hanya kamu seorang." (1 Pet 3:7)

37. Pernikahan bagaikan proses pembedahan karena sifat ingin dipuji dari seorang wanita dan sifat mementingkan diri sendiri dari seorang pria diambil tanpa memakai obat bius. (1 Kor 13:5)

38. Pernikahan adalah petualangan menuju keintiman, sedangkan keintiman adalah keterbukaan seseorang terhadap yang lain. (Roma 12:9)

39. Tujuan pernikahan bukan untuk mempunyai pikiran yang sama, tetapi bagaimana supaya berpikir secara bersama-sama. (Ef 4:3)

40. Pernikahan yang sukses membutuhkan jatuh cinta berulang kali kepada orang yang sama. (1 Pet 1:22)

HAVE A BLESSED DAY FRIENDS :)

WANNA BE A REAL BOYFRIEND...???

I don't care if you are a boy or a a girl, or a Celebrity...
Just read this, it will make a difference.
If only everyone could see this and understand it.

When your love one teases you.., Tease her back and make her laugh 

When you see her walking.., Sneak up and hug her waist from behind

When she says that she loves you..,
she really does more than you can understand

When she grabs at your hands.., Hold her's and play with her fingers
When she bumps into you.., bump into her back and make her laugh
When she tells you a secret.., keep it safe and untold

When she looks at you in your eyes.., dont look away until she does

When she Pushes you or hits you like a dummy 

cause she thinks she's stronger than you.., Grab her and don't let go

When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough..,
Tell her you love her

When she's quiet.., Ask her whats wrong

When she ignores you.., Give her your attention

When she pulls away.., Pull her back

When you see her at her worst.., Tell her she's beautiful

When you see her start crying.., Just hold her and don't say a word

When she's scared.., Protect her

When she steals your favorite hoodie.., 

Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she doesn't answer for a long time..,
reassure her that everything is okay

When she looks at you with doubt.., Back yourself up

When she says it's over.., she still wants you to be hers
When she reposts this bulletin.., she wants you to read it

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

- When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

-Treat her like she's all that matters to you

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes

-When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

-Let her know she's important.

- Don't talk about other girls around her..

- Kiss her in the pouring rain

- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is: "Whose ass am i kicking baby?"

Happy New Year 2012

“Another fresh new year is here . . .

Another year to live!

To banish worry, doubt, and fear,

To love and laugh and give!

This bright new year is given me

To live each day with zest . . .

To daily grow and try to be

My highest and my best!

I have the opportunity

Once more to right some wrongs,

To pray for peace, to plant a tree,

And sing more joyful songs!”

~ William Arthur Ward 

"Satu tahun lagi baru yang segar ada di sini. . .

Satu tahun lagi untuk hidup!

Untuk membuang rasa khawatir, ragu, dan takut,

Untuk mencintai, tertawa dan memberi!

Terang Tahun baru ini diberikan kpd saya

Untuk hidup setiap hari dengan semangat. . .

Untuk bertumbuh setiap hari dan mencoba raih

Yg tertinggi dan terbaik dari saya!

Saya memperoleh kesempatan

Sekali lagi memperbaiki beberapa kesalahan,

Berdoa bagi perdamaian, untuk menanam pohon,

Dan menyanyikan lagu-lagu yang lebih menyenangkan! "

@Garut

Lessons from Charlie Chaplin

Uploaded by Feryanto Setyadi

As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering

are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.

Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY.”

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody

As I try to force my desires on this person,

even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it,

and even though this person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT.”

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life,

and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow.

Today I call it “Maturity,”

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance,

I am in the right place at the right time,

and everything happens at the exactly right moment.

So I could be calm. Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE.”

As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time,

and I stopped designing huge projects for the future.

Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do

and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm.

Today I call it “SIMPLICITY.”

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health— food, people, things, situations, and everything the drew me down and away from myself.

At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.

Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF,”

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right,

and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY.”

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worry about the future.

Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING is happening.

Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT,”

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick.

But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally.

Today I call this connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART.”

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others.

Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born.

Today I know THAT IS “LIFE”!

Awesome speeches by a comedian by the name of Charlie Chaplin....

Uploaded by Feryanto Setyadi

I'm sorry but I don't want to be an Emperor, that's not my business. 

I don't want to rule or conquer anyone. 

I should like to help everyone if possible, Jew, gentile, black man, white. 

We all want to help one another, human beings are like that. 

We all want to live by each other's happiness, not by each other's misery. 

We don't want to hate and despise one another.

In this world there is room for everyone and the earth is rich and can provide for everyone.

The way of life can be free and beautiful. But we have lost the way.

Greed has poisoned men's souls, has barricaded the world with hate;

has goose-stepped us into misery and bloodshed.

We have developed speed but we have shut ourselves in:

machinery that gives abundance has left us in want.

Our knowledge has made us cynical, our cleverness hard and unkind.

We think too much and feel too little: 

More than machinery we need humanity;

More than cleverness we need kindness and gentleness.

Without these qualities, life will be violent and all will be lost.

The aeroplane and the radio have brought us closer together. 

The very nature of these inventions cries out for the goodness in men, 

cries out for universal brotherhood for the unity of us all.

Even now my voice is reaching millions throughout the world, 

millions of despairing men, women and little children, 

victims of a system that makes men torture and imprison innocent people. 

To those who can hear me I say "Do not despair".

The misery that is now upon us is but the passing of greed, 

the bitterness of men who fear the way of human progress: 

the hate of men will pass and dictators die and the power they took from the people, 

will return to the people and so long as men die [now] liberty will never perish. . .

Soldiers: don't give yourselves to brutes, men who despise you and enslave you, 

who regiment your lives, tell you what to do, what to think and what to feel, 

who drill you, diet you, treat you as cattle, as cannon fodder.

Don't give yourselves to these unnatural men, machine men, with machine minds and machine hearts. 

You are not machines. You are not cattle. You are men. 

You have the love of humanity in your hearts. You don't hate, only the unloved hate. 

Only the unloved and the unnatural. Soldiers: don't fight for slavery, fight for liberty.

In the seventeenth chapter of Saint Luke it is written:

"The kingdom of God is within man"

Not one man, nor a group of men, but in all men; in you, the people.

You the people have the power, the power to create machines, the power to create happiness. 

You the people have the power to make life free and beautiful, to make this life a wonderful adventure. 

Then in the name of democracy let's use that power, let us all unite. 

Let us fight for a new world, a decent world that will give men a chance to work,

that will give you the future and old age and security. 

By the promise of these things, brutes have risen to power, but they lie. 

They do not fulfil their promise, they never will. Dictators free themselves but they enslave the people. 

Now let us fight to fulfil that promise. 

Let us fight to free the world, to do away with national barriers, 

do away with greed, with hate and intolerance. 

Let us fight for a world of reason, a world where science and

progress will lead to all men's happiness.

Soldiers! In the name of democracy, let us all unite!

Look up! Look up! The clouds are lifting, the sun is breaking through. 

We are coming out of the darkness into the light. 

We are coming into a new world. 

A kind new world where men will rise above their hate and brutality.

The soul of man has been given wings, and at last he is beginning to fly. 

He is flying into the rainbow, into the light of hope, into the future, 

that glorious future that belongs to you, to me and to all of us. 

Look up. Look up.

Iklan yg sangat Inspiratif Untuk Ditonton

Jangan jadikan aku istrimu, jika....

~Jangan jadikan aku pasanganmu, jika nanti kamu enggan hanya untuk mengganti popok anakmu ketika dia terbangun malam hari, sedangkan selama sembilan bulan aku harus membawanya diperutku.

~Jangan jadikan aku istrimu, jika nanti kita tidak bisa berbagi baik suka & sedih dan kamu lebih memilih teman lain untuk bercerita. aku hanya ingin berbagi dan aku bukan hanya teman tidur mu yang tidak bisa diajak bercerita sebagai seorang sahabat.

~Jangan jadikan aku istrimu, jika dengan alasan sudah tidak ada kecocokan kamu memutuskan bercerai/berpisah denganku.

~Jangan jadikan aku istrimu, jika nanti kamu memilih tamparan dan pukulan untuk memperingati kesalahan ku, sedangkan aku tidak tuli dan masih bisa mendengarkan kata katamu yg lembut tapi berwibawa.

~Jangan jadikan aku istrimu, jika setelah seharian bekerja kamu tidak segera pulang dan memilih bertemu teman teman mu.

~Jangan pilih aku sebagai istrimu, jika nanti kamu malu membawaku kepesta teman-temanmu & memperkenalkan aku sebagai istrimu. Takkan kubiarkan kamu menjadikanku sebagai pajangan dirumah sedangkan kamu lebih memilih berpergian dengan teman temanmu. Bagiku pasangan bukan sebuah trofi atau pajangan.

~Jangan Buru Buru Menjadikan ku Sebagai Istrimu, Jika saat ini kamu masih belum bisa menerima Kekurangan & Kelebihanku. Sedang seiring waktu kekurangan bukan semakin tipis tapi semakin NYATA!

Yg blon married, harap kirim ke pasangannya :)
Yg sudah married agar diingatkan kembali arti pentingnya sebuah pernikahan...

KE- TIDAK PEDULI -AN

"Kebalikan dari CINTA bukanlah BENCI, tapi ketidakpedulian..
Lawan dari IMAN bukanlah Ketidakpercayaan, tapi.., ketidakpedulian..
Kebalikan dari KARYA SENI bukanlah ke-tidak indah-an, tapi.., ketidakpedulian..
Dan lawan dari kehidupan bukanlah kematian itu sendiri, tetapi.., ketidakpedulian.."

Sejarah tentang Teddy Bear (The story of the Teddy Bear . . .)

  

Many of us have loved a teddy bear.

Maybe we've even had more than one very special "teddy" in our lives. Here is the real story of how the teddy bear sprang into our hearts.

Nearly 100 years ago, President Theodore Roosevelt, went on a bear hunt. He enjoyed nature and being out in the woods where animals lived. Because he was the President of the United States, the people organizing the hunt wanted to make sure the hunt was successful.

But after 3 days of walking and climbing and riding, no bears were found. Now what? The President's bear hunt would be a failure!

The next day the hunt guide and his hunting dogs finally found an old bear. The dogs and guide followed the bear for quite a distance until the bear was very, very tired. The dogs attacked and injured the old bear. The guides tied the bear to a tree and called for the President. Here was a bear for him to shoot!

President Roosevelt looked at the poor old bear and said "no!" No one would shoot this old bear for sport. That would not be right. However, the bear was injured and suffering. President Roosevelt ordered that the bear be put down to end its pain.


A political cartoonist by the name of Clifford Berryman heard this story. A political cartoonist draws about current events in the news. Mr. Berryman drew a cartoon showing how President Roosevelt refused to shoot the bear while hunting in Mississippi.

 

If you look at the first cartoon that was printed about the President's bear hunt you see Theodore Roosevelt in the front. In the back is the guide with a bear tied on a leash. Notice that the guide and the bear are about the same size, suggesting a grown bear.
Look at the cartoon which appeared later in other papers. It has been redrawn. The bear is smaller than the guide. The bear is shaking with fear. This cute bear cub began to appear in other cartoons which Clifford Berryman drew throughout Theodore Roosevelt's career.

So that is how a bear became connected to the name ofPresident Theodore Roosevelt.



But where do toy "teddy bears" come from?

After this famous cartoon appeared in the papers, a shopkeeper, Morris Michtom took two stuffed toy bears which his wife had made and put them in his shop window. He had an idea.

Mr. Michtom asked for permission from President Theodore Roosevelt to call these toy bears "Teddy's bears". This store eventually became the Ideal Novelty and Toy Company.

Other stuffed animals were made by a German company, Steiff. An illness left Margaret Steiff unable to walk. She refused to be stopped by her handicap and earned her living by sewing. First she made stuffed elephants, then other animals. In 1903 an American saw a stuffed bear she had made and ordered many of them.

The phrase caught on. Now toy bears are often called teddy bears!

References:

Linda Mullins, The Teddy Bear Men: Theodore Roosevelt & Clifford Berryman, Historical Guide for Collectors, Hobby House Press, Inc, Cumberland, MD, 1987

Peggy & Alan Bialosky, Revised and Updated Edition,The Teddy Bear Catalog, Workman Publishing, NewYork, 1980

Theodore Roosevelt Collection, Harvard College Library, Cambridge, MA

Home sweet home

Better than higher hotel
Home sweet home is better to be there

More than better areas for fun
Home sweet home is better for nap

More than a vacation to great states
Home sweet home is better space

More than a journey which costs a lot
Home sweet home is delicious to stay on

After heaven before all
Home sweet home is best of all

Home sweet home! 


Luwi Habte